Facebook: A Race To Get A Better Ray Of Spotlight

Have you ever skimmed through your Facebook home page and pondered upon how hopeless your life is? Or how exhausting or unexciting it is? I unquestionably have quite a number of times.

I believe that facebook was created as a platform on the internet to connect, socialize, make friends, share, etc. It was meant to make us feel cherished and welcomed into the lives of our friends and family while we scanned through their timeline. Be that as it may, always viewing my friends sharing pictures and stories about their life journeys, excursions and hang outs to cool spots, made me feel excluded leaving me wondering  what was I doing with my life. That in the long run left me feeling discouraged, envious and separated from the world. Girls tend to share countless selfies looking remarkable making others, such as myself, feeling insecure about themselves.  Bragging about going to expensive restaurants and sharing pictures of food tends to make other individuals feel awful about themselves who can't afford to go to such places.

According to a recent study by German researchers, one in three individuals felt ghastly in the wake of going to the site. Watching companions in their course of events made them feel, to a great degree, terrible about themselves.

The most well-known reason for individuals to feeling discouraged and unstable on facebook was the comparison of likes and comments with their friends. A few individuals post a straightforward status that says "Feeling hungry" and there would be over a hundred likes and comments on it. Even posting something canny and significant does not get me any more likes than only ten or fifteen. Your popularity and worth is characterized by the number of friends in your profile or what number of comments or likes does one's photo gets. That prompts a person feeling useless and substandard compared to those people.

These things have prompted both men and ladies feeling constrained to be the best one on their profiles. This leaves a significant number of us attempting to post physically appealing photographs, statuses and comments that makes us appear to be cooler than others. Every one of us attempts to be someone we’re not in order to be "likeable". Social media has turned into a wellspring of race for us to get a better ray of spotlight than other people.

Due to these circumstances, Facebook has become to be another purpose behind us feeling unstable and pressured. We should all try to remember the primary purpose of social media and not get dragged into this race of getting a bigger number of likes.

Each person is distinctive and delightful in their own particular manner. In spite of the fact that, Facebook has unquestionably assumed a noteworthy part in stressing me out, I have learned that social media does not define who I am. There is a whole other world to life than simply the number of likes and comments on my photographs and statuses. So we all must unwind, associate, share and appreciate our lives in ways we believe are the best.